I am a research addict. I do a lot of it for all sorts of reasons.

What is pissing me off today is when other people talk about something they know nothing about without doing research first. If people ask for advice or an opinion on something and you don’t know anything about what they are asking then SHUT UP! Do not reply, do not leave a comment just to leave a comment. Do not make guesses! Do not say anything like “well I don’t know for sure buuuuut I think…” No, just don’t. Ok?

Do research instead! Stop talking out of your ass, you are only spreading ignorance.

Ahhhh! Rant over.

It only takes one person to totally ruin an experience or to make your day suck. That was how work was today.

Now, my job stocking shelves obviously isn’t a fun time but I don’t hate it. I don’t really like it much but that doesn’t mean I don’t try hard to do a good job and that I don’t take pride in working hard. I bust my ass and do the job I get paid to do. So yea, work is fine.

Today was ok until this one woman started complaining. She complains non-stop about EVERYTHING! I swear she thinks she is the Target goddess. Personally I think she should shut up and be thankful she has a job and that Target isn’t fucking it’s employees over with the current economy. But no, she just bitches and bitches about work. That made me pissy since I had to listen to her for hours on end.

Then I moved to another area once I finished work in my own. The store was open (our normal shifts are 4am – 9am and the store opens at 8am) and these other employees were being embarrassingly unprofessional. One girl was swearing up a storm, which obviously is a big no-no when the store is open and customers are around, she also kept smacking the ass of one of the guys we work with…obviously she is fucktarded. Then this other girl was talking SO loud I could hear her on the other side of the store…ugh. Clearly they lack professionalism. We may not work at some classy top notch place but it doesn’t matter, wherever you work you show professionalism because you as the employee represent the company. It is simple really. I could go on and on ranting about this particular group, about how lazy and slow they are but i’ll stop now.

The way I see it is if someone is paying me to do a job then I do it and try my best to do it well. I don’t start shit for no reason, I work hard, I do what my boss tells me to do and I try to be professional. Ugh, I am so sick of unnecessary drama from childish idiots. They piss me off… and that’s not just at Target, that’s everywhere. People need to grow up and learn when to shut their damned mouths. Why cause problems simply to stir things up? Do people feel better by being a bitch just because? Grrr.

I kinda forgot about my blog. I am the mood to rant so here is where i’ll do it. Oh and rants tend to be a jumble of words and sentences. My rants are rarely well written.

I am sick of listening to idiot parents, especially ones that refuse to take responsibility for anything.

Example: At work these 2 woman were talking about their kids, as usual. They both go on and on about how selfish their kids are how they have to do everything for their kids and blah blah, I mean they complain about them nonstop. Then not too long ago one was talking about how their kid had done something stupid but how it wasn’t her daughters fault, oh no, it was the OTHER kid’s fault because it was “peer pressure”  because their child is wonderful and so forth (and you know that other mother is saying the same thing about the other kid).  Every time it comes to bad parenting they flip the story around to it being peer pressure or whatever. They never admit it was bad parenting, they only make excuses. It drives me crazy.

Also in my experirence parents that brag about what a great parent they are tend to be the fucking worse parents. Another time at work the women were all together gossiping about how this other woman was iresponsible and didn’t watch her children well and all the women go “oh I never took my eyes of my child when they played outside.” Bullshit. My own mom was part of this conversasion and said the same thing. One time when my brother was little he followed the garbage truck all over town because he thought it was cool. My mom didn’t know he was gone until the garage man gave my brother a ride back home and knocked on the door.  My brother was around 5 years old at the time. See what I mean? No parent is as perfect as they say they are. I hate when parents brag about being the best parent to other parents. It annoys me to no end.

Oh and there is this other girl I know who brags all the time about how fucking smart her baby is, about how much smarter it is than all the other babies…this kid is less than a year old and she is already using it for attention. Ugh.

It pisses me off. Parents want to take credit for all the good things their child does but once they do something bad they put the blame on someone else. They never take the damn resposibility.

And don’t even give me “you don’t know what you are talking about because you don’t have kids” shit. I have eyes and ears, I am not fucktarded, I watch and see how parents act once they get around other people. Its a pissing contest to see who is better. ALWAYS shoving the blame at someone else for how their kid acts. And the two women I hear EVERY day at work are the worse! From the things they themselves say, they treat their kids like shit. But when their kids backtalks them or whatever, they blame video games or the kids they hang out with at school.But when their kid does something good they brag nonstop about how it was all their doing.

I know parents don’t control their kids. I have done loads of stupid things and they weren’t my parent’s fault at all. I know this. But at the same time parents needs to stop acting so damn perfect and need to stop showing off to others. Young parents especially, they constantly use their kid for attention.

If you have kids and you are reading this, next time you want to blame your kid’s behavior on an outside source, stop and take a good hard look at yourself first. Take responsibility for your own damn actions.